heyy i was reading about you're topics and
all that and i was wondering if any of you
can give me advice. I'm 14 and i had sex
with my boyfriend for the first time
yesterday. We we're both virgins and it
was very enjoyable for both of us. He used
a condom but i'm worried because i've been
getting cramps like period cramps and my
"you know what" is sore. Is this normal or
am i...Pregnant?
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 07-11-07 12:59pm
stress can cause your period to be late.
relax! stop stressing. and if youre this
worried maybe you should get on birth
control and use condoms so you have a
better chance of not getting pregnant
ythenfirst time hurts for most girls i
think
its just uncomfortable
if your not ready to except the
responsabillityt of what could happen
after you have sex, not just pregnancy but
STD"s and diseases too that could kill you
and make you very sick. alot of people
dont even know and you cant tell they have
an std. but you never know if its there or
not
im 16 yrs old and 17 weeks 5 days pregnant
with my first child
i hope you guys know now its more serious
than pregnancy
alot of things can happen mmuch worse than
that after sex
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kerryn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 136 Location: wellington, New zealand
Posted: 07-11-07 14:39pm
I agree, my first time was uncomfortable
the next day too. But yeah, like the
girlfriend said, get on birth control.
Just remember, even if you double up ie
birth control and condoms, you can still
get pregnant, so if you arent ready to
accept that possibility, dont have sex.
Also you dont get symptoms the day after
you haev sex if youre pregnant, most girls
dont get symptoms till they are 2 or 3
weeks pregnant, so i dont think you should
worry
