Womens Conditions Forum - Just Wanted to Tell My Story Inpoint Form

I am a 33 year old women. I have a husband and three children twins that are 5 and a singleton 2. I lost her twin at birth. I have been having chronic pain from a car accident in 2005 when a three quater ton truck hit me from behind when I was stopped. My youngest and I were in the van and the reason we were stopped was there was some sort of thing going on in front of us the van in front of me stopped dead I stopped the jerk behind me was not paying attention and hit us going 60kms and hour. He totaled the van my daughter was three months at the time was unhurt thank God. I had forgotten to take the thick warm blanket down off her because I had not warmed the van up enough for her So when the back window was smashed in and the glass all over her was just on the blanket all I did was take off the blanket and she was fine. I had installed her car seat properly as well so she is absoulutly fine. I on the other hand am not. I had whip lash and other soft tissue damage, lots of neck pain and rt arm pain. In September of the same year the headaches was getting from the injury all of a sudden got worse sharp pain in my head on rt the lt side too coming and stabbing me every 10-20 seconds. Ened up in hospital for three weeks just after her first birthday. I was put in a wheel chair and told that most likely that I would never get out of it again. Today I am not in a wheel chair I do how ever use a walker as not to fall. They had give me some meds. that I reacted to. I also went through withdrawl from morphine, gabapenton, and topmax as my husband for got to get my Rx's filled then was rememberance day everything closed. I thought I was going to die. Then got that all squared away to be taken off that slowly I fell with my youngest down the stairs and broke my ankle not a clean break I split right up the middle of the bone. To this day am waiting to find out if the are going to do surgery on it as now my ankle is very week dispite physio and strengthing excerises. While I was in the hospital they started doing nerve blocks which helped with head pain for about 6 to 8 weeks then I was back to pain at a level of 9-10 or more. NOw 3 years later am getting nerve burn swhich hurt but relive some of the pain for about 3 months and the pain level after this is at 4-5 so much more manageable. Also am on t3's fentanyl patches of 75 mcg and effexor for depression. I am currently seeking help from anyone who has any pain coping ideas as mine are starting to no longer work for me. Also am lookin gfor a doctor to see about maybe surgery to fix the stablizers in my neck. Then Last week I spiked a fever ended up in the ER they took out my IUD and now am bleeding very heavyily and in alot of lower rt abdomin pain very sharp does not go away moving makes pain worse even if my husband or children move the bed or couch ever so lightly I am in terible pain from it. I have told my doc about how much I am bleeding am waiting for him to call me back today about surgery this week to try and stop bleeding but I have a pre exsisting condition that happen when I had my twins (i will tell you all that story some other day) I had blood clots in my lungs do now everything is a much higher risk. If anyone has any ideas please tell me I am open to trying almost any thing with reason. I would also like to say hi to everyone here I think I have a lot to give and to learn here and have only been at this asite a week if that and am always here now. Thank you all for listening to me go on and on. I willpost my Labour story one day soon in the pregancy forum but for now I will say good bye and taykare