i'm not sure if i'm pregnate yet but i'm extremely anxious about this, okay i had unprotected sex like so manytimes w my bf then that week i was ovulating and then about a week or so after that i started to bleed and i thought it was just a light period b/c mine are usually irregular and i havent been having sex for the last 18 days now and my appetite is small and i cant eat meat and i am extremely sensitive to smells but i have no tender breasts, morning sickness, but my friend says that she had no symptoms at all while she was pregnate so.................
i've been against having my own children b/c of the population of children that need their own homes but when i take my test i'm kindof hoping that it's positive, but i kno that my family would murder me!!!!!!!!!!!! and maybe even my bf!
i'm panicking reading all these stories!
what do i do?!?
So you want to be pregnant, but you're don't want to have kids. I'm confused. Regardless, you've already had the unprotected sex and nothing we can say can change that. If you're pregnant, you are and then you have to make some decisions regarding that. Have you taken a pregnancy test yet? If not, why haven't you? Was your boyfriend aware you were having unprotected sex with the intent of getting pregnant? How does he feel about this?
In closing, you're actually not too young to have kids, we have girls on this forum who have made terrific mothers at 15. I don't know if you could be one of them, that's something you may have to decide if you keep at your current pace.
well its not that i'm too young it's that i go to bording school and ur not allowed to be pregnate there or have children there.
when we had sex i wasnt even intending on getting pregnate it was only the thought of being pregnate that makes me want to go through with this.
we had unprotected sex, he pulled out and we used plan b. i was only visiting him for a week thats why we had it so many times.
You should use condoms/birth control if you are not in a position to have a child.
The word is pregnant. Writing it wrong makes it sound like you are incredibly young, in which case you need to take some serious thought as to how you will care for this human. How will you give it the best life possible? This isn't 'fun' this is someone's LIFE you are thinking would be 'neat' to go through with.
How do you support yourself? Do you have a job? Health insurance? How much do babies cost? How much does rent cost? Are you aware that in addition to rent, you have to pay for electricity, phone, water, sewer, garbage, and that doesn't even include food or diapers.
Does your boyfriend plan on quitting school and working full time to support you and the baby? Do either of you know how much daycare costs?
I don't understand these girls who claim to have unprotected sex and then change their stories a million times. Either they were actually using condoms or it was unprotected and they just forgot to say they took planB.
Savsav, there is no excuse for having unprotected sex many times with your boyfriend just because you were only seeing him for a week. If you had access to planB, you also had access to condoms, which happen to be cheaper than planB. I see my boyfriend sometimes 5 days every couple of months. We even went six months a couple of times just to spend a week together. We use condoms every time and I'm on birth control. There is no reason you can't do the same. You need to start taking control of your life, you can't afford to quit school just because you didn't want to make the trip to grab some condoms. Hopefully you aren't pregnant this time and you can protect yourself for the next time.