Basically ive had it my whole life, the string under the end of my penis is too tight, so i cant pull back my foreskin... it's been like that since i can remember... and it has ruined my life.. it probably could have been easily solved but i was like the most popular guy in school and i just couldnt bare if someone found out.. my parents divorced and my mom is a strict lady i just did not want to tell her and ruin her image of the perfect son she has.

When i was about 15 i tried to explain my problem to the school doctor, we got these health care forms about sex and stuff and you had to fill in yes or no in the boxes, i cant remember the exact question but it was something about foreskin, and i put no, then you would go and talk about it to the school doctor and when he brought up this i explained the problem to him and he just told me to wrap a cold towel around my dick? i was too embarrased to make an argument about so i just said okay thanks and left... but he did not understand me at all...

I'm now 19 and a virgin, i dated this really hot girl when i was 16 i really liked her alot, but i ended it as soon as she started hinting that she wants to have sex. After that i started eating, ALOT. So i would be really big and i would not get in situations like that again. I was young and stupid i dont know why it is so difficult for me to go see a doctor about it... it just is.


I am not sure if im in the right place to ask this but is my problem normal, and is it an easy fast operation? i would imagine it should be pretty simple just cut off the string, its like the string under the tongue when you lift it up, i got that between the end of my penis and the foreskin. I have many times when being depressed tought about doing it myself with scissors or knife but chickened out in the last second.

How should i tell a doctor about this?


-19year old boy from Finland-