too tight for boyfriend

well i understand that my ex use to be so big it urts so is my boyfriend now i think most girls are sore after sex i just think you need to trya differnt postion

i've never been sore after sex unless it was big. positions may help though, being on top can help you control how much of him enters you. I typically feel more of my man when in missionary position. Definitely tell him about it, if he's a man worth having he'll understand and try to be unselfish and easy with you. be sure to keep lubricate on hand to help.
its bad sex if both of you are not enjoying it

Whether your boyfriend is black, white, orange or yellow, men come in all sizes...However, I would suggest that you watch what is happening...If he is too big for you and you tear, this would require surgical repair...This is not a nice surgery and seldom heals the way you would hope...I know of this happening with a woman and it can be serious...

If he is too large, tell him not to enter you all the way...Get some relief...Lube may help but there is only so much give inside your vagina to accomodate a man sexually...If he cares for you deeply, he will understand...It kind of comes down to your body or his....

Just my thoughts....
Caroline

hmmmmm... from what your saying, it doesnt sound like a size issue. It sounds more like to much of a good thing. Three times a day, every day... eventually your muscles will either adapt to that much use or the amount will slow down. If it truely is an issue for you try laying off for a bit in between romps. Once in a day then go a day without. Other than that, use ice cuz no matter what size your boyfriend is (or color for that matter) your gonna be sore going at it so much.

All I am going to say is, wait till you have kids, your body adapts to things a certain way and if its sore lube becomes your best friend!

it stopped hurting so much after was stopped having sex so much. now he goes a little slower, and me on top.

I have a similar problem.I haven't had sex in a long time,and just recently my boyfriend and I tried--he couldn't even get in.I know he wasn't the issue, my opening's just too small.

I have sex once a month and my vagina ripped to my anus.... my boyfriend's penis is so big that he can't help it. I have decided that I am going to hurt either way, so we have sex all of the time now, i have gotten used to the pain, and a little bit of a tear and im ready to do it again.

Maybe you should try some foreplay first or use some lube that numbs you a bit.