dear codee,,ure boyfriend is worried because u must b tellin him how hard ure workin and ure not gettin da results wich makes anyone unhappy and he cant u in that way,,the thing is,,goin in shape shud b made a long term thing rather tahn a short term,,so that when u get out of the gym u atleast have time to chill out with friends and family in sanity rather dan goin 2 times daily,,dat is overexertion and for 7 days,,dats too much,,i guess,,u can get the results goin 1 time for life but being strict with ure gym regiment,,the thing is,,dont make losin weight da goal,,make happiness the goal and goin to the gym a part of it,,i hope ure gettin wat i just said,,lol,,but i personally believe in the long run,,,overexertion wud get atleast me tired,,and if i dunt lose weight il get all irritated by everyone and wud b disheartd,,just dont overexert ureself,,kepp a selective diet,,DIET IS 80 percent,,dont forget,,know wat to eat ,,when to eat,,rather dan listenin to ppl who dont know 2 things abt losin weight and are overweight themselvz,,once uve lose weight ,,ul know how easy it is losin and gainin it,,,