tonsillitis and HIV

Dear Doctor

I am male 25 years old,before 2 months i had unprotected vaginal sex,one week after that i developed sever tonsillitis .in last 3 years i had recurrent attack of tonsillitis but every time after talking antibiotic the tonsil size returned back to normal size,this time till now still my tonsil enlarged.so i want to ask

1_during acute HIV infection tonsil and lymph node will stay enlarged for how many days??
2_i lost about 5 kg in short time ,sever weigh loss in short time could be early sign of infection or that weight loss could be due to stress and nausea.because i had alot of stress and nausea and i was thinking about it all the time.
I know the only way to know if i am positive or not is test but iam living in country it is very hard to be positive.

note.sorry this is 2nd time iam asking this question but because of website problem i didn't see the answer.