Yes, I DO have this problem. I've had tmj since about 5 years, on a scale of 1-10, i'm always in pain, but during some months, it seems every day is an unbearable 10 and then other months i'll go down to 6/7 or even 5.
never without pain, but the severity of the problem seems to cycle a bit. On top of that i am slowly, getting progressively worse though.
so that the bottom part of the cycle is a lot worse than it was last year, or the year before that.
For around 5 years i convinced myself i 'didn't really have a problem' because when I was on the good part of my cycle it was mainly swollen/numb and didn't 'hurt that much'
(it did, just in comparison)
yeah, i've been deluding myself for aorund 5 years, almost always in pain, because somtimes i'm in less pain than other months.