You need to be very specific and noisy and loud to get doctors attention these days as they seem to get many patients with "headaches" and some, if I might argue, do not care to diagnose the cause and write it off as stress or migraine if are lucky. Specifics about pain, location, intensitity, duration, time of pain, impact of the pain on your ability to do SPECIFIC things.
From your post I wasn't sure what is your primary concern, but it appears to be the ability to take care of your family. This is not specific enough for doctors, however, so take notes if you can, buy a recorder, or use cell phone - current generation cells phones allow almost unlimited ammount of voice recording, some include video too.
Yea, the post is understandable, it is hard to trust the diagnosis when doctors do not fully explain as to how to came to a concussion. So question, don't be afraid.
Ed