Hi Guys,
I use to have that problem some years ago. I had started experimenting with my sleep and trying to remember in my dreams that I am actually sleeping, so I can change things around and do as I please. It was fun, because I could fly every night, but the result was that after all of the dreaming I started feeling very tired. So I decided to stop, but I still continued remembering my dreams and the tiredness continued. I have never used any machines for lucid dreaming or have had a sleep study, but I found that when I went to bed very relaxed, without any anxieties that helped. Other things that helped were:
- exercises: doesn't have to be a lot, 10 min run over your lunch break or 30 min of pilates (you can get that from youtube) can be enough. Though once you get use to it, you'll probably start doing more for fun any way
- I came up with a meditation of my own, to fall asleep with. Some meditations can be very active and make things worse. This is a version of the counting sheep. Firstly just try to leave your mind blank for as long as you can. Then let an image of a never-ending spiral staircase swim into your mind. You can see the top, but not the bottom. You are at the top, you can see your feet on the top step. Each step has a number written on it. The first number is 100 and then they go down. I step down and in my head I say the number that is on the step. I'm stepping into the darkness below, but it doesn't get any darker around me really. If you get to 1, jump back to 100... although I've never been past 35 myself.
- make sure there are no noises to disturb you
- remove any light souse, even an alarm clock could have enough light to disturb your sleep (just set it in the other room, or cover it with something)
- go to bed as early as possible... 10pm might seem like a children's bed time hour, but you'll feel better
- I have taken over the counter sleeping pills for 2-3 days in a row at times when I have struggled to go to sleep (after I got rid of the dreams). They seem to give me a poor quality of sleep and I wake up tired, but after a day or two they manage to get me back into an early going to bed routine.
Hope this helps