Tips to make bf cum? (Page 1)

anyone?
i really need help..i'm seeing him again tonight and i'd like to not disappoint him (even though he says he isn't)

First of all, get some good lubricant... lots out there specifically designed for masturbation purposes. I really enjoy the ones that have a warming sensation. Get an oil base lube. They don't dry out like the water based lubes do. Much better for masturbation purposes.
A good lube is WAY BETTER than spit.

Next try using both hands at the same time. Up and down and around. Also try caressing his balls too. This feels really good, especially if your hands are all slick and oily.

Another method is to stroke his shaft with one hand while at the same time, rub the top of his penis head in a circular motion with the other hand (this feels great).

One other method is pretend you are trying to light a fire by rubbing his dick between both your hands (you know... the old fire starting method where you would take a stick and rub your hands back and forth fairly quickly with the stick in between the palms of your hands thus making it turn/spin). While doing this, move your hands up and down his shaft... from the base to the head. Trust me. This feels great too.

Also, the most sensitive part of a man's dick is the head. Pay particular attention to that part of his equipment... rub it, caress it, stroke it,lick it, and suck on it. He'll love it

Wow this all sounds great..thank you so much!
I'm not used to having to do so much pleasuring without actual sex..
my ex almost always wanted to go straight to the sex..and was one of those guys that was a little TOO easy to please if you know what I mean..so he usually came way before I did and was typically "too tired" to finish me off...selfish lover.
And now I kinda feel like the tables have turned..only I'm actually trying to please him
Well anyway, I will be sure to try this...I'm excited

Have you tried milking the prostate? Seriously the only people that downplay it are people that refuse to try it. I nearly passed out the first time. Hard to talk about so tread lightly.

my boyfriend has jokingly asked me to rub his prostate a few times..maybe i should look into it

anyway..i say go for the oral...mix it with a hand job, if you get tired of sucking use the hand..if your hand gets tired go back to the oral..just go back and forth and like someone else said GENTLY massage him while youre giving him oral..my boyfriend loves it...using the tongue to circle around the head of the penis works well for my boyfriend as well

maybe what you need to do is have your way with him. make him agree to submit to your desires ONE TIME. tell him you won't hurt him in any way.

set up a "safe word" like something he would never say...like..."butterfinger".

then tie him up, blindfold him, and do whatever it is you please. if he says the safe word, then you stop whatever you're doing, that instant, no questions asked...but he has to agree not to use the safe word unless it is ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY NECESSARY.

about the prostate massage, i have only done this once, so there are others who understand much more about this (or you could just do a "search" for it). but i can tell you that it is an awesome tool to have in your sexual repetoir (i don't know how to spell that word, but you get the idea)...hehe.
jasmine

i have given my bf a prostate massage and he loves it, not all the time but just by surprising one night he finds it erotic try it on your man see if he likes it! Jenny

well hopefully i'll be able to use these tips someday...he broke up with me on new years

or sorry to hear that hun, that's a bit nasty breaking up with you on new years!

maji,
sorry to hear about your break up too! that's too bad. i broke up with my b/f recently. saw him kissing a co-worker...oh well.

your case is probably like mine in that i loved my b/f very much, but having been away from the relationship for a few weeks, and having kind of calmed down from all the stress...i feel better and in many ways, i'm glad that we are no longer together.

i try hard as a girlfriend and obviously you do to maji or you wouldn't have come on here looking for additional ways to please your b/f. all i can say about that is that 99.9% of men would die to have a girlfriend who was trying to please them.

his loss is YOUR gain!
good luck!
jasmine

maji, i had a relationship like that where we got together and broke up multiple times. it WAS very painful. in my last relationship, i made a deal with my b/f that if either of us ever said we didn't want to be together then that was IT!

i think that the finality caused us to NOT take the relationship for granted. we never fought, argued, etc. we just seemed to have a great appreciation for eachother and respect for one another. to the extent that i feel like i will adopt this philosophy in my future relationships (should there be any)...

but, when it came time for us to break up, it was my decision (he was messing around on me), but was telling me he wasn't going to continue the relationship with the other girl...i just don't play that game.

anyway, i feel good about moving forward...in part because i'm not wondering when he and i will come to our senses and fix this broken relationship. i know it's over.

sorry for rambling...my suggestion to you is to move on and don't look back.

jasmine

maybe he just needs to go seek some counseling to get over what almost appears to be a bi-polar scenario.

very interesting. i hate that you are in such pain though, and in this situation, my only concern is for you.

all i can really suggest is that you prioritize any forward movement (with or without him) on whether or not it serves you well. honestly, it doesn't sound like he'd be a very good spouse (i don't know if this is a concern to you or not), but if i want a man to be by my side forever, i'd say it's pretty evident that this guy would not be the one.

what do you want going forward? do you want him (no matter what)? or do you want someone who has the potential of being with you long-term without all of the breaking up and making up?

the fact that he breaks up with you and nothing is "wrong" is disturbing too. why does he do it? so he can go get with some other girl? i'm guessing you're going to say no based on your prior comments, but honestly, then why is he doing it...because he's whacked out in the head? if that's the case, do you want to hinge your future happiness on whether or not he is whacked out in the head?

i'm only saying this to get you to think about what YOU want out of life and relationships, not what HE wants or doesn't want.

i know you're basically describing your relationship as perfect in most every way except that he wants to do one little inconsequential thing like break your heart to hell every few months...hmmmm...

i hope my words can help you somehow figure out what's right for you. if it's him then so be it. but if it's not, then you need the clarity to understand that fully so you can move forward.

jasmine

Ok before anything is said I am straight lol. But I am an advice giver. But I broke up with my gf cuz in a year and a half I will be movin to Florida for prolly the rest of my life and I hurt her really bad cuz she had fallen for me really hard but I did it now so it wouldn't be worse later on down the road. I love her and always will but she can't move on no matter what I do or what I say. You and her are kinda the same cuz you both had assholes for bf's. I know I am and it takes a man to say it. But she doesn want to belive it. Neither do you. That's why you keep goin back to him. But the thing is you will be so better off without him. He's not worth the time and effort if all that comes out of it is a broken heart everytime. He just is a downer and no girl ever deserves someone like that. Girls deserve the perfect man. Like I am a nice guy but I don't feel like it anymore cuuz I hurt someone so bad that they cry almost everyday. But I try my best to cheer her up. The whole point of this is your way better off without him. He's not worth the time you put in. You deserve a guy that will love you for you and treat you like there's no tomorrow. So take my advice e. And learn from ur experiences. He's not worth it and you should deffinently move on and find an even better guy.

And p.s. It's not the size of the boat...it's the motion of the ocean. I am a 16 year old that has lived thru so much bullcrap that I can give advice on anything. Belive it or not but just ask me anytime. I hope I helped you if not then tell me more about it and anything else that's wrong in ur life.

- Andrew