|Have you tried milking the prostate? Seriously the only people that downplay it are people that refuse to try it. I nearly passed out the first time. Hard to talk about so tread lightly.|
this milking the prostate thing is evidently awesome for the guy. i did it once on my ex b/f and i thought he was going to freak out! he loved it.
anyway..i say go for the oral...mix it with a hand job, if you get tired of sucking use the hand..if your hand gets tired go back to the oral..just go back and forth and like someone else said GENTLY massage him while youre giving him oral..my boyfriend loves it...using the tongue to circle around the head of the penis works well for my boyfriend as well
|First of all, get some good lubricant... lots out there specifically designed for masturbation purposes. I really enjoy the ones that have a warming sensation. Get an oil base lube. They don't dry out like the water based lubes do. Much better for masturbation purposes.
A good lube is WAY BETTER than spit.
Next try using both hands at the same time. Up and down and around. Also try caressing his balls too. This feels really good, especially if your hands are all slick and oily.
Another method is to stroke his shaft with one hand while at the same time, rub the top of his penis head in a circular motion with the other hand (this feels great).
One other method is pretend you are trying to light a fire by rubbing his dick between both your hands (you know... the old fire starting method where you would take a stick and rub your hands back and forth fairly quickly with the stick in between the palms of your hands thus making it turn/spin). While doing this, move your hands up and down his shaft... from the base to the head. Trust me. This feels great too.
Also, the most sensitive part of a man's dick is the head. Pay particular attention to that part of his equipment... rub it, caress it, stroke it,lick it, and suck on it. He'll love it
sorry to hear about your break up too! that's too bad. i broke up with my b/f recently. saw him kissing a co-worker...oh well.
your case is probably like mine in that i loved my b/f very much, but having been away from the relationship for a few weeks, and having kind of calmed down from all the stress...i feel better and in many ways, i'm glad that we are no longer together.
i try hard as a girlfriend and obviously you do to maji or you wouldn't have come on here looking for additional ways to please your b/f. all i can say about that is that 99.9% of men would die to have a girlfriend who was trying to please them.
his loss is YOUR gain!
|maji, i had a relationship like that where we got together and broke up multiple times. it WAS very painful. in my last relationship, i made a deal with my b/f that if either of us ever said we didn't want to be together then that was IT!
i think that the finality caused us to NOT take the relationship for granted. we never fought, argued, etc. we just seemed to have a great appreciation for eachother and respect for one another. to the extent that i feel like i will adopt this philosophy in my future relationships (should there be any)...
but, when it came time for us to break up, it was my decision (he was messing around on me), but was telling me he wasn't going to continue the relationship with the other girl...i just don't play that game.
anyway, i feel good about moving forward...in part because i'm not wondering when he and i will come to our senses and fix this broken relationship. i know it's over.
sorry for rambling...my suggestion to you is to move on and don't look back.