hey sweetie. like yourself, i LOVE being on top. what i've found is that it's best to ME if I'm sort of grinding on him...that can make me cum pretty fast...but it doesn't work for him. what works for him is for me to pull up a bit and keep the opening of my vagina closer to the head of his penis. if i do him fairly quickly like that, he's a goner in less than a minute!

the nice thing about this is that it enables me to do the real deep penetration and grinding action on him for my pleasure and the to finish him off with the upper level work. i hope i explained that so you can understand.

one question though...with the understanding that all guys are different. what difference does it make if he wants to switch positions? AFTER you get yours, my attitude is switch to whatever makes him feel the best, and let him get his!
jasmine

One thing that may help him cum is something that I really love to do...While riding him and grinding, I lower the top of my body down to kiss him...I have his head on a pillow so that he is somewhat raised and readily able to have my breasts...Go one at a time for him and deep tongue kissing at the same time...This way he is the one being made love to and you are the lover...

Licking a man's lips while you are riding him can be a real trip...With the hot circular movements of grinding, I find it is very easy to find my g-spot...Add some hot sexual talking and getting a man off in this position works pretty good for me.....

Take care,
Caroline