It takes the average healthy couple a year to get pregnant, so don't panic if it doesn't happen immediately. Here's some answers to your questions.
1. She needs to learn her cycle to know when she ovulates. Have sex around her most fertile time to increase your chances of conceiving.
2. Different holes? You need to have sex with her vagina to get her pregnant.
3. Time of day does not matter. Just have sex when she's fertile.
4. There's no time to NOT have sex.
5. Not really. They say that if you have sex a few days before ovulation, you increase your chances of having a girl because girl sperm last longer (but swim slower) than boy sperm. But really, you have a 50/50 chance anyway.
6. Have sex. It's that simple.