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Q: Time to end it ?
asked by: tornin085 on October 6th, 2009
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We have been dating for almost 1 year. My b/f is kinda "trouble", I should have realized that from the very beginning. He had a short-lived marriage the year before he dated me; was acused of "sexual harassment", although the girl reduced him and used him in this case;his best friend commented on him as "not honest!!! But honest about the reality"...

We got along quite well for the first 6 months,He was very nice to me and I considered him a very decent, sweet guy. But after 6 months, we fighted a lot, mostly on very small things and I really mean FIGHT.

Last month, we moved into living with his bestfriend, which was the beginning of the nightmare. His best friend is okay, not my type of friend but okay to be roommate. But when they are together, they always smoked pots and cigars, I told my bf to stop. He promised to stop at nights but usually broke his promises next afternoon. I was so frustrated... things like that happened a lot. Seems like I am worthless to him since he has his bestfriend to be his company. A couple weeks ago, I was begging him to stay with me on friday night instead of going to parties with his friends. All i got was he told me I really wanna go and left....

i guess its time to end it right???
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W0LF
replied on October 7th, 2009
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Yep
You're not happy. Relationships should make you happy and secure. This guy isn't showing you much respect. He doesn't keep his word to you and he isn't giving you the support you want.

Tell him you want to take a break from the relationship. Go and see what else is out there for you.
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tornin085
replied on October 7th, 2009
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Thanks.

Actually, I told him that last night that we need a break. Insteading of spending X-mas together, we needed to spend sometime with our own family. He told me he was so disappointed and He loves me. But, What the heck he was doing!!! He ignored me and only came to me when he felt lonely and tired. Seems like he took me for granted.

Another thing he told me he might invite his roommate for X-mas so they can smoke pot together and fight against me!!!!
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J3nnyuk
replied on October 9th, 2009
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Hi hun well you defiantly should not be with this guy from what you have told us in your post. he seems like a unreliable person who is taking you for granted one minute he is like do what you want im doing this then when your firm with him he turns on the i love you act, seriously hun find someone else who is worthy of your time..good luck..jenny
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