Hi. Whenever I masturbate, I usually have to be on my back and thrust up slightly and hold that position in order to climax. When I'm fairly close, I can let go and lay flat, but if I don't hold like that first, I can masturbate for at least a half hour straight without getting anywhere. It gives me a ton of stamina for when I'm with my girlfriend, but I don't want it. It just feels weird to have a half hour of sex go by and have her have several orgasms while I'm not even at one. Until just a few nights ago, I masturbate nightly and have good orgasms when I finally get one as long as I would hold my thighs tight and elevated a little. I won't see my girlfriend again until mid June and decided it might be better off if I don't pleasure myself until she comes down to see if it restores and sensitivity. One thing I noticed is that if I tighten up a bit like I'm doing Kegel's while masturbating, it feels really good for a bit. Also, the longer I masturbate regardless of what position, it gradually starts to feel less sensitive and eventually feels not quite numb, but not too far off of it. I never use lube except for in the condom sometimes. She always gets the same type of condoms (thankfully not the desensitizing ones) but won't try the thinner types to see if that makes any difference. Does anybody here have any suggestions? I'm definitely willing to try something to fix this situation.

Brian