I'm gay. I recently had sex with lots of people, all sorts sizes, ethnicities, and such, but after a period of time, I've realized that I'm uninterested in anonymous sex. I have been tested frequently, so that's a good sign. I'm ready to commit now, but I don't want to be an unpleasing lay to my partner. How can I tighten my anus where it would be more stimulating and pleasurable? I also notice that I have something called an anal rosebud. Is that normal, or is it a result of my erratic sexual behavior? If so, how can I reduce the rosebud? Thanks!