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Q: three miscarriages
asked by: dsmchalmers on April 28th, 2008
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After reading My First post I felt I should explain a little more and slow down on my typing.
My first Pregnancy was a great success I'm a proud mom of a beautiful 7 year old girl! That is the good news, How ever the pregnancy was far from a good one. when she was born the Dr. said her placentas looked odd. so she sent it to the lab and me home. 5 days later I hemorrhaged and went to the ER, 4 hours late and with the loss of HALF my blood I found out I had placenta Accreta and that they took out another placenta bigger then the one that came out after my daughter, I had A DNC the Dr said she almost took my uterus because she was having a hard time getting the bleeding to stop. After all of this I was discharged I ask if this would affect having any other children, she said she did not see why it would.

Again I Wait 4 year and got PG, lost the baby after knowing about it for only 6 days (well I started to spot I lost it most likely a few day after)

One miscarriage is normal I was told, I tried again, it took 14 mounts, again on day 7 I started to spot then day 9 i was bleeding, went to the immediate care clinic, they checked me said my cervix was still closed and took blood test( said my thyroid was normal but I was anemic) I was told not to worry, they gave me all the signs as to when to go the the ER. I said I had a previous miscarriage does this mean something was wrong with me, I told than about my DNC and first pregnancy, again they side it was most likely just "BAD LUCK" a Bad egg or two normal they told me most Dr would not do any test until I lost 3 pregnancy's. So go out and Get pregnant again and see what happens.

Sounds so easy don't it! Go get pregnant, It is hard for me to get pregnant as it is, so I tried for about 9 months after. I took ovulation test tried herbs and anything that I read about that might help.
I gave up my baby making days were over ,. I put away all the thought of having any more children.

Then my Breast felt tender I was 6 days late, OK here we go again. I took a test no ,make that 3 test all positive.
I tried not to think about it but it was almost impossible, and once again day 7 I started to spot, just a little on the toilet paper, for two days it was only when I wipe did I see blood on the TP (nothing at all on my pad), on day 3 I had some cramps, I laid down and after an hour or two I went to the bathroom, and there was something on the TP not a blood clock it looked just like what the last two looked like, OK I miscarried, took a nap and got up and felt something come out wet, to the bathroom I found Two large blood clots on my pad about the size of a silver dollar, put on a clean Pad and that was all that came out nothing more I went back to spotting for a few more days.

Now after my first two miscarriages I bleed a lot, like a very heavy period .this time all I did was spot, and ON two pads got blood on it and it was only about the size of a quarter maybe a little larger, that was the day of the clot and the day after. with my first two miscarriages I took a pg test the next day they were negative. with this one I was positive for a week after. Now I took 6, 3 were the digital one that said pg not pg the other were the line ones.

\I know I miscarried I just wonder why did I not bleed this time, is it normal to just spot and not bleed when you miscarry?
The other question I have is why do i lose the baby at the same time each time? Did The DNC after my daughter leave scaring and the eggs can not implant properly?
I'm 31 now with my daughter i was 24 and 50 lbs lighter (I am ,and was working on losing the weight)
would this also make any differences ?

I can't see any Dr. for about 3 weeks so any help would be appreciated.
I'm so deppressed and I just would like to know what is wrong with me, why am I loosing my baby's.
Thanks
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Muthoni
replied on June 5th, 2008
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Dsmchalmers
I read both your posts word for word and all I can say is this too will pass and I don't think there is anything wrong with you.

So sorry about your losses.

My miscarriage started as spotting and then there was major bleeding with clot. I hate to think about it. I guess each miscarriage is different.

We had a miscarriage in 2005 and took a break for three months and have been trying since then. We will keep trying until we have a baby or another miscarriage and then we are calling it quits.

It is tough because I am turning 40 mid next month.

Whatever will be will be.

Always
Muthoni (Mson)
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irishmom
replied on May 6th, 2009
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three miscarriages
I also have had three miscarriages in the last nine months. I had a healthy baby girl in 05. My pregnancy with her was very uneventful. I finally get pregnant with #2 in July of 08, which I lost at 9 weeks. Technically the baby quit developing at 6 weeks. I get pregnant with #3 in Dec of 08 and lost it in January. My husband and I were using protection and despite this, we conceived again in April 09. I lost this one 2 weeks later. So I have had three miscarriages which all seem to go wrong at 6 weeks. I have had no D&Cs and was put on Metformin, Folgard, and progesterone after #2. But since I lost #3, my doc doesn't think the lack of meds were the problem. Now I've been referred to a high risk specialist. My question: How was I able to have my beautiful daughter if there is such an extreme problem that I've lost 3 in a nine month period of time?
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Beachgirlml
replied on July 27th, 2009
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Hi there Irishmom

I know exactly how you feel! My story is exactly the same I had a healthy baby boy in 06 and in the last 11 months have had 3 consecutive miscarriages all ending between 6 & 7 weeks! I have also had no D&C's.
I was refered to a fertility specialist who took 10min with me and basically told me that I look healthy and that every women should expect to have at least 5 mc in her lifetime, due to chromosome problems! which made me feel so flat
I really hope you get a good specialist, don't give up! I know how frustrating it is to know you've had a healthy baby and then this. I really hope all goes well for you and know that I am out there going through the same!
Hopefully we'll both eventually have some good news!! xx
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Muthoni
replied on July 27th, 2009
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I wish you well ladies. We stopped trying.

Muthoni (Mson)
Very Happy
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charinginmississippi
replied on August 12th, 2009
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To all of you all I also had three miscarriage and with one of them i have a dc and now i am praying that one day i will have a happy baby. I even went to the doc so they can run test on me but they did not find any thing that is wrong so I guess when my time comes I will have some children I am only 27.
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godschild7
replied on August 27th, 2009
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I have had four miscarriages so far in the last five years that we are trying to have a baby. It is devasting & Im really scared. I lost the baby everytime between 8-10weeks max. Heartbeat was present in only 1preg at 7weeks & when I went for followup at 9wks, the heartbeat had stopped. I had to do DNC all four times. I really need to know why this happens everytime. Could all kinds of tests done & the specialist says there is no problem.
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