After reading My First post I felt I
should explain a little more and slow down
on my typing.
My first Pregnancy was a great success I'm
a proud mom of a beautiful 7 year old
girl! That is the good news, How ever the
pregnancy was far from a good one. when
she was born the Dr. said her placentas
looked odd. so she sent it to the lab and
me home. 5 days later I hemorrhaged and
went to the ER, 4 hours late and with the
loss of HALF my blood I found out I had
placenta Accreta and that they took out
another placenta bigger then the one that
came out after my daughter, I had A DNC
the Dr said she almost took my uterus
because she was having a hard time getting
the bleeding to stop. After all of this I
was discharged I ask if this would affect
having any other children, she said she
did not see why it would.
Again I Wait 4 year and got PG, lost the
baby after knowing about it for only 6
days (well I started to spot I lost it
most likely a few day after)
One miscarriage is normal I was told, I
tried again, it took 14 mounts, again on
day 7 I started to spot then day 9 i was
bleeding, went to the immediate care
clinic, they checked me said my cervix was
still closed and took blood test( said my
thyroid was normal but I was anemic) I
was told not to worry, they gave me all
the signs as to when to go the the ER. I
said I had a previous miscarriage does
this mean something was wrong with me, I
told than about my DNC and first
pregnancy, again they side it was most
likely just "BAD LUCK" a Bad egg or two
normal they told me most Dr would not do
any test until I lost 3 pregnancy's. So go
out and Get pregnant again and see what
happens.
Sounds so easy don't it! Go get pregnant,
It is hard for me to get pregnant as it
is, so I tried for about 9 months after.
I took ovulation test tried herbs and
anything that I read about that might
help.
I gave up my baby making days were over ,.
I put away all the thought of having any
more children.
Then my Breast felt tender I was 6 days
late, OK here we go again. I took a test
no ,make that 3 test all positive.
I tried not to think about it but it was
almost impossible, and once again day 7 I
started to spot, just a little on the
toilet paper, for two days it was only
when I wipe did I see blood on the TP
(nothing at all on my pad), on day 3 I had
some cramps, I laid down and after an hour
or two I went to the bathroom, and there
was something on the TP not a blood clock
it looked just like what the last two
looked like, OK I miscarried, took a nap
and got up and felt something come out
wet, to the bathroom I found Two large
blood clots on my pad about the size of a
silver dollar, put on a clean Pad and that
was all that came out nothing more I went
back to spotting for a few more days.
Now after my first two miscarriages I
bleed a lot, like a very heavy period
.this time all I did was spot, and ON two
pads got blood on it and it was only about
the size of a quarter maybe a little
larger, that was the day of the clot and
the day after. with my first two
miscarriages I took a pg test the next day
they were negative. with this one I was
positive for a week after. Now I took 6, 3
were the digital one that said pg not pg
the other were the line ones.
\I know I miscarried I just wonder why did
I not bleed this time, is it normal to
just spot and not bleed when you
miscarry?
The other question I have is why do i lose
the baby at the same time each time? Did
The DNC after my daughter leave scaring
and the eggs can not implant properly?
I'm 31 now with my daughter i was 24 and
50 lbs lighter (I am ,and was working on
losing the weight)
would this also make any differences ?
I can't see any Dr. for about 3 weeks so
any help would be appreciated.
I'm so deppressed and I just would like
to know what is wrong with me, why am I
loosing my baby's.
Thanks
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Muthoni
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Dsmchalmers Posted: 06-05-08 13:56pm
I read both your posts word for word and
all I can say is this too will pass and I
don't think there is anything wrong with
you.
So sorry about your losses.
My miscarriage started as spotting and
then there was major bleeding with clot.
I hate to think about it. I guess each
miscarriage is different.
We had a miscarriage in 2005 and took a
break for three months and have been
trying since then. We will keep trying
until we have a baby or another
miscarriage and then we are calling it
quits.
It is tough because I am turning 40 mid
next month.