He also says they have to have a good looking face, not because he's imagining having anything to do with them, but only because if they have an unattractive face, it throws of from when he's looking at there breasts. How can he say he's not imagining being with them when they have to have an alright face....isn't it about looking at the naked body to get horny... so i cant believe he doesn't ever imagine he's with someone else. Like a girlfriend should have a pretty face....I dont get it... But he tells me he doesn't picture anyone else but me when he masturbates. ????

Even late at night sometimes when he gets up with our baby, baby will fall back asleep, and he'll flick through the channels. We dont have porn...but he could be watching something as simple as a model runway channel, sees a woman wearing a see threw top, and starts playing with himself....i caught him one night, he got mad, then finally admitted to it and said it was only because she had a see threw top... he could see her breasts...He told me he wasn't going to take it any farther, that he wouldn't have gotten himself off from that. I think thats only because i caught him. I'm wondering if he was picturing himself with them, or just the vision of breasts nothing else.' Now i'm wondering if he was feeling horny, why not come to bed and start snuggling me? Why watch some woman walking around...pretty much clothed! He said to me that sometimes guys just look and play with themselves a little, but dont want to ge't themselves off....My thought it, Why just look and touch yourself, and not take it to the next level of satisfaction? And one day he went to the bathroom with his phone, looked at porn... i saw it in his phone and asked him when? He said he was in the bathroom, not really thinking about it, and just wanted to look. It made me upset because i was pregnant and sitting literally 5 feet away from him....I wasn't very big, and we had sex every day!!! I looked really good and he always said how hot i was. So need to understand why he would go into the other room just to "LOOK" when he could look at me naked. He didnt want to have sex after either....it was just to look.....But then that just makes me feel like he was bored of my body. Bored of only seeing me... Any information you could give me on any of this would be great, even better from a guys point of view i guess as long as they know its not a jealous thing, its purely me needing to know for my own comfort....If some guys really dont think anything when looking, and why just to look. And if men really fantasize about having sex with some stranger, even if they tell you they only want you. Please help clear my mind. I'm on here now because i dont want to ask him anymore questions that will probly go nowhere, i need to figure this out on my own with some of your advice!

Thank you!