Im sorry to hear that.. I can slightly relate to you.. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. Our first year wasn't that great (in bed)we both would complain wny I wasn't able to release my self. (Cum) We also tried everything and I came to a conclusion that I wasn't feeling him or I couldn't concentrate.. as much as ur feeling good in bed with him.. He is just not touching your right spots.. I recomend music, a great romantic date.. and what not. I also recommend Kevin and Bing.. They help so much.. Theres no reason to be shy with them.