Ok well I'll give you the background. We're both 18 and go to the same school now. I met this girl(let's refer to her as Sarah) on a holiday at the age of 14 and was instantly attracted to her. After spending a few days around her I realised that I didn't just like her because she looked good but she was also really fun to be around and we got on great. On the last night we got together and kissed passionately for some time. It was wonderful, literally the best girl I've ever been with and that's around 30 . I gave her my number at the airport. Coincidentally she only lives like 11 Kilometres from me, small world. I was texting her for awhile and intended to meet up with her, start going out with her but unfortunately I lost my phone and communication stopped. I didn't know exactly where she lived and I couldn't remember her number.

I didn't see her for two years. Then when I changed schools and saw her it was really awkward, she avoided me for a long time. At the beginning of this school year we were around each other a fair bit due to having mutual friends. We became friends in a month or so and my feelings for her resurfaced. Just as I was about to make a move I was beaten to the mark by a close friend. It was a sickening experience and I coun't interfere since I didn't wanna mess up our friendship and whatnot. She dumped him in December and hope returned.

Around six weeks later after she was over him I decided to make a move. Unfortunately I was really nervous and couldn't do anything. So my friends said it would be a good idea if I was drunk, then I'd have no inhibitions. Unfortunately things went wrong....I got far too drunk and was a complete mess. My friends got it out of me that I liked her but I was replusive at the time. She rejected me but it was probably due to my state at the time. Maybe she didn't believe that I truely liked her.

In February she got with another of my close friends the one night I wasn't around(he knew I liked her and he was one of 3 who proposed I get drunk to make asking her out easy). I was so sickened. I thought he'd treat her well and she'd be happy so I left things alone. They were terrible together and broke up 3 times in 4 months. The last time they broke up she found out he was texting another girl for weeks and he asked this other girl to get with him on a few occasions. You see he had been with this other girl before and he told Sarah that he had feelings for the other girl all along. He also told Sarah that she was dry and couldn't make good conversation. She was devisted after this break up and felt she had given him so much and he just threw it away.I was there for her as a friend, while at the same time planning to get with her when she was over this guy.

Around 4 weeks after the break up she got with a ramdomer at a party. She was having a really hard time getting over her last bf even though he was terrible to her. He saw her with the randomer and jealousy took hold. He filled her with lies and she bought it and took him back. Lately he's been playing mind games with her. He has her wrapped around his finger. He told her she was fat indirectly even though she's skinny and hot as hell and she got really upset. She made herself sick and I fear she'll become bulimic if he keeps it up. Even though he's supposed to be my friend I'm filled with rage and have lost all respect for him after what he's done to her. This guy Is the biggest douche ever and she looks past it coz she thinks she loves him although all he does is make her miserable. I'm thinking that she'd just rather being with him than being alone. They fight all the time. I'm super depressed because I'm not with her and because I really care about her and I'm just sitting back watching this guy destroy her. What can I do to get the girl of my dreams and rescue her from this creep?! We've become quite close and I think I have a shot at it. Any and All advice is much appreciated.