i am almost fifteen, i have had sex three times, the first time i bled a lot but it didnt really hurt, the second time didnt hurt at all but then a month later my boyfriend and I did it for a third time and it hurted when he was putting it in, why.? is it supposed to.?
You're really young and frankly sex takes time ti get "use" to. Boys rush and maybe you were not relaxed and wet enough. The points to no pain is relaxation, arousal, lubrication and patience. Next quextion for ou Charlie97...are u on birthcontrol? Does he use a condom?Have you thought about holding off on the sex until you are a little older and your body more mature. It will be much better if you wait. No lies
Charlie97..he is going to break up with you anyway. Maybe not today but soon. How do I know this...because he is pushing a 14 year old to have sex with him. When he does break up with you I know you will be devastated and humulited as well. So better you push him off now , feel sad for awhile but powerful. Im a girl too. Been there and done that...and I wish someone had told me. Take care sweetie ...and please get on birthcontrol as condoms can break.