wow no offense but at 14??? I'm 16 and I have the morals and intelligence to hold things for later with my boyfriend. It's up to you to solve the problem you created. NEVER abort! ever! talk to your parents. you will have to sometime.

excuse me darklegend, but that choice of abortion, adoption or other is up to her and you should not hassle her not to if that is what she choses IF she is indeed pregnant.

scared chick, the only way you will find out now is with a pregnancy test.
the earliest you can take a test is 5 days before your expected period.
you best tell your parents about this too...if keeping the baby is what you choose they will end up being main care provider seeing as they make an income..and you are not of age to work and in school still..
may i suggest birth control or not having sex again until much MUCH older?
it would help avoid a situation like this from happening in the future..

and excuse me.. haha proudmommy. It's fairly obvious that I can't force her to make a choice. People come on these websites for opinions. And I may voice my opinions as much as you want.
Thankyou.

but the way you 'NEVER abort! ever!'
it seems to be doing much more than voicing an opinion
is all that my reply to that comment meant.
this girl is 14.
she should think of other options rather than keeping the child as a child if she is pregnant..like adoption, she can have an open adoption and decide how involved in the child's life she is, or if abortion is what she thinks is bes she can do that too.
but its her choice.
and the way you voiced your opinion sounded more like a demand. not an opinion.

thanks for the help guys i now i should have waited btw