hi there
acute HIV infection not causing lump in armpit,SOME time it cause generalize lymph node enlargement.
regarding the test ,3 months after exposure is conclusive,try to understad most of people 95% of people produce antibody t 25 days,the renaming 5% produce antibody between 25-90 days.so if you had unprotected anal or vaginal sex,you should test again t 3month .