my husband has been an everday pot smoker for the last 6 years. In the next year or two we'd like to have a baby..thing is we can't until he quits smoking..He's semi succesfully tried two years ago for 6 mths..untill right before our wedding when he reconnected with old friends. He's spending a good $50 a week and not even really aware of the financial burden its taking on us. When we met three years ago it was no problem because i did it too..but I stopped because being a hyper active person I felt lazy and didn't do anything that i love anymore. well he tried to quit again in December..but that time it was because i had asked him to..by the end of the month he was back to smoking..mainly because we had talked and he said he never wants to quit..he doesnt see a problem with it. we're both 21 years old but all he does at night is sit around smoking a bowl playing video games. All while im cooking, cleaning, doing the laundry, taking care of the pets every single night. I'm sick of it. I really just wish that he would listen to me when i tell him i hate it. Ive come to hate pot. Its one thing if you smoke every once in a while or when your not dependant on it. but if he doesnt have it for one day hes a complete a-hole to me. when he was clean for that 6 months after the first month things were fine and we did more things! i know that trying to get someone to stop an addiction is even harder when they dont want to. how do i get him to see that our marriage isn't going where i thought it would be when i married him? how do i get him to see that he needs to quit for us and our future not just his? shouldn't by now he realize that if he gets randomly drug tested at work he will be fired and its not worth it..or worse in the long run he might lose me over it?