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Q: The smart her vs. the stupid me
asked by: Sukki on September 7th, 2008
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Ok heres what i wanna say. im 22, diploma student, flunked out of science education degree, a bit heavy and not so tall @ 167 cm/71 kg, cant doll up, slightly anti social and dont go out much. Shes 23, degree student, taekwondo senior, short, knows to doll up, social, has lots of friends. high sex drive.

She has a hard time finding a guy and all her relationships dun work out well. As for me, I have 7-8 exes, in a LDR with someone i liked and met in a neighboring country about an hour thirty min's flight from where i live, and my classmate, a local but different race, adores me and i do like him a bit too, slightly.

shes the smarter one, works so hard, and im the slacker and lazy person who gets my dad annoyed for sleeping late and to the extent of sometimes being abusive on me when i quarrel with him (despite my age) .
i dont get along with my parents and sometimes i think im a crazy funky wild girl who goes HEYYYA! at people she knows, and spends a lot of time on online chats than real life.

its weird how come an intellectually smart girl has a harder time getting guys connected rather than a stupid lazy girl like me.
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petery2k562
replied on September 10th, 2008
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Kinda Hard to tell what the question is but I am guessing it is located in the last sentence.

Anyway, to answer your question, smart girls doesn't have harder time. It is just that they are more particular about what type of guy they want to be with and they are willing to wait until that guy shows up.

I hope that helps

-Peter
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Sukki
replied on September 11th, 2008
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i mean she does better than me in school but shes too desperate in real life for a boyfriend--the wrong types of guys comes out, those who have gf's already, those who wan her for sex, guys way oldddder than her

and me, used to be in a few 'wrong' relationships but now not anymore, i have walked my way out of them, and my friend who's doing better at school is getting into worse situations, each situation worse than the other.

Is everything a matter of fate and luck or are guys just choosy for girls who act cute (i ve been told i am cute) and over-the-average pretty girls or is it that guys prefer not so smart, gentler, kinder girls than girls who are aggressive and demanding in relationships?

i am more casual, naughty (the type who tickles the bf or teases him continuously) and the type to cheer up a guy with jokes. my friend is more demanding as in she'll contact the guy the whole day and demand more attention, whereas i go on with my happy-go-lucky lifestyle..
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petery2k562
replied on September 11th, 2008
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Sukki, There is no one girl that a every guy is looking for.

Some guys like blonde, american girls, others brunette. Maybe one guy likes a high-maintenance girl, while another likes the fun, quirky type. Who knows?

Every man is different, all liking different type of girls.

There are men out there who loves smart girls who are very fun to talk to and maybe demanding.

Tell your friend to go out there and look for them because I'm telling, sitting and waiting for the guy she wants is not gonna do anything.

Keep trying and just know that the guy of her dreams is out there.

Cheers,

Peter

P.S.

You are very similar to my GF, she is also the casual, teasing, fun girl. :]
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