I'm 19 and a virgin, and I need advice on contraception. I figured there's not harm in being prepared just in case!!
I was considering going on the contraceptive pill, not for contraceptive reasons originally, but because I have a bladder problem which could be hormone related. However my doctor strongly advised me against the contraceptive pill when I told her I suffer from bad migraines, because she said that it could make migraines worse, and in some cases has even been known to cause strokes in people with severe migraines.
I'm now really confused because I was speaking to my friend the other day and she said that her sister has just been put on the pill FOR her severe migraines.
Seem to be contradicting each other just a little bit!
And also leads me onto the question: what can I do contraception-wise? I have a sensitivity to latex, so if I can't use condoms and I can't use the pill what the hell CAN I use?! Also I know many guys don't like using condoms.
Man I sometimes HATE being a girl, I hate having periods, I hate having breasts, I hate the fact that if I have sex I risk getting pregnant. Men have everything so easy!
I also have an LD (dyscalculia) which means I find keeping to times very difficult as I'm really bad at time management and will forget things. Does anyone know of any methods of contraception that are 100% reliable, and do not involve having to take things at specific times or days?
My mum and my friend both say I should get a second opinion regarding the pill.
Maybe I'm just being stupid.
Or maybe I should just make it a lot easier for myself and just NOT have sex...