The Offical "I've Given up" Thread Posted: 03-05-08 07:17am
Id like to start this and maybe get it
stickied to all the people who have given
up and why.
So ill begin
I started smoking when i was 8. Everyday
after school waiting to be picked up id
smoke with the highschool boys and girls,
and my mother was and still is a chronic
smoker, so i was used to smelling it at
home, i smoked until the age of 15 (6
years ago) When i finally left home and
that enviorment and i feel so much better
for it, my greatest fear is my brothers
and sisters as they are young and have no
chance of been out of that enviroment, Now
when my mother smokes in front of me i am
absolutley revolted and wish she would
either quit or burn to death.
Anyway please share you stories
Cameron
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aestus76
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Joined: 02 Apr 2008 Posts: 4
yellow mirrors... Posted: 04-02-08 05:45am
I started smoking at 17, and like you, my
mother was a chain smoker so I was already
used to the smell and the yellowing
wallpaper. I had once been the biggest
advocate of getting her to quit, so the
realization one day that I was "a smoker"
was so weird. My mother didn't help,
saying that if smoking was the worst thing
I did, she was pretty lucky. She didn't
want me to smoke, but felt like she had no
right to criticize me. I still don't
understand how I went from wishing the
governemnt would ban cigarettes, to always
making sure I had an extra pack...
My sister is two years younger than
me, and when I started smoking, she
adopted my old role. She would constantly
try to get me to quit: breaking my
cigarettes and telling me I looked dumb
smoking. I didn't pay much attention to
her, as she was a "freshman" and I was
about to become a "cool" senior. I wonder
if my mother used the same cop-out to
avoid my "young" arguments?
I went away to college came home to
find that my sister smoked. It was my
turn to feel like I had no right to
criticize. I was glad that I didn't have
more younger siblings who would succumb to
the horrible habit.
My sister quit smoking cold turkey a
year ago. Mom stills smokes like a
chimney. So do I. I know this post is
about stories of quitters, but I thought
my sister's story was really interesting.
I am trying to quit now, and I am trying
NOT to blame my habit on my mother. It's
just funny that it took my younger sister
to motivate me, after being the last
family member in our "chain" of smokers
(pardon the pun, but it makes sense....)
Cameron, I understand why you are
worried about your brothers and sisters.
At least you will be able to show them
that not everyone they look up to is a
smoker. Keep telling them how uncool
smoking is, and how you are so happy that
you quit. Of course, there is the chance
that they will be smokers at one time
during young adulthood. Really, I shared
my story because it shows that all you can
do is try. I tried with my mom, my sister
tried with me, and misery ended up loving
company. Obviously, the worst thing to
tell a young teen is that he "can't" do
something. I wish everyday that I would
have remained a mentor instead of an
antagonist...
I am getting married next year and
hope to have children. Even if that
wasn't a big enough motivation for my
mother (I can't keep justifying that it
was the 70s), I know I do not want to
raise my kids in a smokers household.
It's the least I can do at this point, and
the best thing is that I can help my
future children and my own health and
pride at the same time.
Maybe I will be able to stop being
shocked that a smoker stares back at me in
the mirror.
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