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mz_lil_cuti3
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When i got home i cried and told my mother and she didn't say much about it but if i'm not pregnant why do i feel this way? and my boyfriend is really happy wit the thought of me having his first child because he told me that he wants us to get married and have a great life wit our baby. but i don't know how to tell him that i'm not going to him his first child. now i'm really stressed out because i'm afraid of telling him becuase he is going to be really crushed......... He always feeling my stomach and telling he cant wait untill i have his child and now i'm really stressed out becuase i don't want to hurt him.
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J3nnyuk
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mz_lil_cuti3
New User
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PenguinsRus
Supporter
Try to break the news to him gently as possible and let him know that it just wasn't meant to be this time around. If he loves you he will understand and the two of you can get through this together.
Sometimes when we really want to be pregnant or worry about being pregnant, our bodies and minds trick us into feeling symptoms and thinking we are pregnant.
At 16 you should really try waiting a few years. Think of all the great things you can do with your boyfriend in the mean time to grow as a couple. You can go on trips, finish up school, get a great job to take care of your child one day, and spend tons of time with your friends. When you have a baby, achieving these things are much harder. Enjoy your life together as a couple of two while you still can and try not to worry about it
Sometimes when we really want to be pregnant or worry about being pregnant, our bodies and minds trick us into feeling symptoms and thinking we are pregnant.
At 16 you should really try waiting a few years. Think of all the great things you can do with your boyfriend in the mean time to grow as a couple. You can go on trips, finish up school, get a great job to take care of your child one day, and spend tons of time with your friends. When you have a baby, achieving these things are much harder. Enjoy your life together as a couple of two while you still can and try not to worry about it
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mz_lil_cuti3
New User
Im really thankful for ur advice but it really affects me cuz I wanted to pregnant n give him his first child but I went to my doctor n he told me that I have to have some blood work done that way we can know for sure but I told my boyfriend today he got really upset n didnt want to talk to me. I started crying n he told me that he was sorry n he wants everything wit us to get better n have a great relationship as u said "a couple" but I just hope that in the furture i am able to give him the child he wants. All I do is hope n pray that GOD will allow me to be a mother someday to feel my baby growing inside of me....
but my boyfirend was really hurt n now Im afraid of losing him even though he has told that next year in August the same day I turn 18 he wants me to marry him but I just hope that he really its not just saying it cuz how I am feeling.
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