Your the grown up in this situation right now.
Your not a child anymore who has to listen attentively and do what your told.
You have your own brain, and you probably already know what decision you are going to make.
The people around you just have to listen, give their two cents about the situation, and be as supportive as possible if they love you. You also have to listen to what their going to say, but explain what steps you are going to take in raising this baby.
Its a hard thing to get out in the open, and something no parent really imagines hearing, but your being responsible in telling them what is going on, and your grandmother just has to live with the decision you choose.
She cant force you to go anyway in this decision, she'll be upset..but like my grandma said when she found out, "if your happy Krystine, then im happy for you."
And now when i see her, she rubs my belly, i showed her the ultrasound pictures, she asks how im doing and if the baby kicks...its a hard thing to hear at first, but they do come around. Some people take a longer time to adjust though because they have how things should have been worked out in their heads, and can't accept how reality really is playing out [like my mother.]