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Just relax. She will be even more nervous than you. Some women bleed some don't. If she does, you won't knoe it until after probably. The truth is, EVERYONE goes through this, and as a fellow worrier, I know what you're going through, but the truth is, the first time is memorable for reasons that have nothing to do with the things you are worried about.

The main thing, from a womans point of view, go slow, it will hurt her less, and she will be more comfortable.
Also, spend plenty of time on foreplay, (Clit stimulation, etc.) That will help with lubrication and the general mood.
Mainly, don't set the bar too high for the first time. Honestly, sex gets better as you go along because you and she will both learn technique and see what the other REALLY likes.

The good news is, the more you do it, the better you get at it. Everyone is different, and you will have to learn about HER as much as she will you.

Just dont yell GROSS! or something like that if you see blood!! No matter what happens, relax and try to make her relax. That will help the mood and make it easier for you to do your thing!

Just be prepared. Put a towel down if that would make you feel better. If you plan on having sex during her period eventually, you will see blood then too. It really isnt that big of a deal once you get used to it. But it is nice that you care enough to be worried.

the only bleeding that happened with me was a slight pink color on the tissue after wiping from peeing. So it just depends on the woman.

Take it slow and listen to her...make her feel comfy. May you both should try reading some articles online, that may help. Have fun

In some ways I think you are really lucky. I don't know where you are from (you don't sound American), but here in the U S of A it seems like by the time we reach 21 everyone expects us to be rich, rockstar sex experts, and woe to anyone who is slow to catch on to the ways socialization works (guys like me, in other words).

You and your girl have it perfect: you will both start as virgins at the same level of experience and will grow together. But me, as I get older virgins my age will get more and more scarce, so I can't really go that route. So even when (or if) I find a girl, she will probably be more experienced than me and I will probably have problems with feeling like I need to catch up, and the knowledge that no matter how much I grow she will still always have more experiences than I. I actually envy some aspects of your situation.

there are actually some women out there that do NOT like an extremely sexually experienced man...i know this is the mens chat but after reading your post i couldn't help myself..don't beat yourself up if you're not sexually experienced..i waited until i was 19 and i've only been with one guy, its been 3 years and i'm still with him, before me he had only had one other sexual partner...i'm so glad he didn't have more...to me its less of a turn on if a guy has a long sexual history...i dont like alot of baggage...trust me, you'll find a woman that will LOVE the fact that you waited for her..there are not enough men out there like you these days...

i agree with unlove and worrywart01. u 2 will be able to grow together, learn together and enjoy being each other's first. i personally waited til i was married as well, not really typical of the american girls these days im 25 and been married for 8 months. i dont regret waiting at all. i know things are way easier said than done but just remember to be relaxed, sex is meant to be shared between 2 ppl that love each other.