From your description it seems that your vagina does not get too wet before your husband starts penetration. I suggest you tell your husband to do some foreplay before starting such as touching your clit or G spot. Because,it will definitely make you orgasm. And,then your husband won't have any problem,I think

I tore my frenulum, it has come completely away from the shaft it seems to be healing nicely but not back to where it was, do i need to worry!