hi i was in jakarta recently and had a massage where she gave me a little more than a massage by this i mean, she masstabated me, as she did this she licked her finger and rubed my penis i also kissed her ...there was no oral sex or intercoarse,

seamed pretty harmless but now i read you can get Syphilis and Herpies even with such little contact can be transmited this way, I am married and i am terrified of the my stupid actions.

what is the likely hood of me getting a std this way.

Secondly if i was tested for Syphilis immediatly and found positive would i be passing on the virous at such an early stage if i slept with my wife and if i had an injections would i be safe to have sex with here or do i have to tell her...

Please help Thank you..