Well, birth control didn't work for me at ALL! It made me EXTRA fertile and thats how I had my first miscarriage. My period was due two weeks ago- and now I'm spotting... I think. I think I'm gonna wait it out and see what happens in a couple of weeks. Then I'm planning on going in to the doctors to get a blood test.
My husband and I are just using Ortho Options Conceptrol Gel...you can find it at walmart by the condoms and such. It has worked out really great for us and has no side effects like birth control had.
I understand what you are going through- my husband and I weren't planning on getting pregnant- just practicing...lol. We've almost been married for a year, so it's not too soon but it could have waited- know what I mean??? We want to be excited but at the same time we are really nervous and don't want to get attached. It's been really hard on him because he doesn't feel like he can do anything to fix how I feel. How is your guy dealing with it? I'm taking all of the necessary precautions- no alcohol, no caffeine.
I'm not very emotional with little things, but all of the mixed emotions are so frustrating. I'll definitely keep you posted. If I find out anything else, I'll let you know. Good Luck!