I am eighteen years of age and recently
split up with my boyfriend of two years.
I've known a guy online for a good year or
so, but lost contact when I was going out
with my ex.
I got in contact with the guy online and
within days we met. Went to his house
watched tv had a takeaway and wine etc.
and we got intimate later that night.
After that, he only contacts when he wants
to do something sexual. He doesn't really
talk to me as a friend or as if he is
genuinely interested in me. We've met up
three times so far and immediately after
intercourse he completely goes off me.
He recently split up with his girlfriend
of a year, and is still deeply in love
with her but she has made it crystal clear
she doesn't want to get back with him, I
don't know if it's that that makes him so
distant.
I kinda like him more than just a "medical
question buddy" as it were. But he's so
closed off.
What should I do? I know he'll get in
contact again when he wants something and
I'm too lonely to say no.
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Maddie34
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Joined: 06 Oct 2007 Posts: 953 Location: , MN
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Posted: 05-04-08 14:18pm
Cut off contact.
What he can offer is only a short term
satisfaction and it won't make you feel
any less lonely. Meaningless sex is the
last thing you need right now and it will
only leave you feeling used. Call a friend
and have them come over and get your mind
off everything. Go out if you'd like or
just stay in and watch movies until you're
comfortable. Just don't allow contact with
this guy any further.
Feel free to pm me any time you need to.
Also, I'm not going to lecture, but you
need to be careful about meeting people
you meet online. Very dangerous.
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