Hi,
I am 17 and am also having surgery on my tmj in a couple of months. I've been told how rare it is to have problems so young so was very excited to hear about you

I've had the problem for 5 years, and tried literally everything,including a splint, muscle relaxants and physio, but nothing has helped - in fact it's only getting worse. Finally, I had an MRI which has shown a large osteophyte in the tmj and a flattened and displaced disc, so I'm having surgery

I'll let you know if it helps!