Hello j3nnyuk,
I have a question of a problem that I am facing: What can a man do to put the fire back in the bedroom when he has become bored with his wife, she doesn't like sex as he does, he like all kind of things in the bedroom and she just prefers one way, and thats it, no oral sex, no vip, no foreplay, no nother else?

Hello bo21...Well you should speak to your wife about this...tell her how unhappy you are with the way things are going.....That is one option....
then there is the "surprise" option...When you are in bed Slowly start stroking her back (when she lay down of course)..you have to do it slowly so she feels relaxed....and if she likes it move over with kisses on her neck,ears,etc.....initiate it that way......You could suggest you watch a porn together in bed to get ideas..see if that will spice it up a little....Or i have another thing you could try....rub the inside of her thigh..and slowly work your way up to her vagina..caress her that way for a while and see if she will let you "go down"......These things work great 4 me This is all i can suggest for now... try these before speaking to her about how you feel as these might work..Good luck..Jenny