suffered a recent miscarrage

i was bleeding slightly my husbend rang the N H S direct we were refered to the primary care centre at the local hospital as it was a saturday and the gp practic was closed. We saw a dr who refered us to the gynocoligy ward where i undertook some tests and they didnt seem that concerned about the bleed. On the following Monday we had an ultrasound and saw our baby it was tiny only 5mm in length and its little heart was beating we were so happy and reileved to see our new addition.A week went by without a bleed i was relieved then the following week i was bleeding i saw the midwife for the 1st time she took all the appropraite tests and asked all the medical questions, i told her about the bleed but she didnt seem that concerned. O the monday i had a bad bleed also loosing clots, we contacted the hospital but they just told me to rest and booked me in for an ultrasound on the 6 8 08. We arrived i felt sick then during the test we were told the devistating news that our baby was not there i was and still am heartbroken as it is only 3 days ago. I chose the natures way to end the rest of the preganancy as it has already taken my baby but the bleeding has stopped! the medical staff said i would have a very heavy period but i havent ! i have to return to the ward next friday to have another scan to see if the pregancy has gone! i am terrified can anyone give me any advice please/