Hi,
I've just discovered this site as my partner & I are really looking for some advice on this & hope you can help.
We have been together for four and a half years, have always had a loving and satisfying emotional and sexual relationship and this isue has only arrisen in the past month, but seems to be getting worse.
I am fifteen weeks pregnant, and during the first weeks of my first trimester my partner and I didn't have sex due to my loss of libido. This has since returned and we are able to enjoy sex once again (we abstained for roughly three or four weeks)but with this my partner has been ejaculating prematurely - within six to ten seconds of penetration. This has never been an issue before and is really bothering him.
We've tried stopping foreply on my part (so that his penis is not touched until we progress to full sex)and stopping when he feels he is reaching orgasm for, but are a at a bit of a loss at what else to do.
I'm convinced that it may be anxiety, albeit subconcious, about the baby inside me and I also think that it will pass in time, he's more bothered by it and it is beginning to upset him.
Any help or addvice would be greatly appriciated, thanks.