I sympathise with you and your problem.
it does not make you feel wanted does it? more like used !
Sexual intercourse is designed to bring pleasure to both people , not just one.
If you know when he is going to want it, can you stimulate yourself first, so that you are already well aroused, even close to having your climax, then when he enters you and your sexual responses are active cos you are very close to your orgasm, would that be a turn on for him , and arouse some desire to please you in future?
and presumably if he just satisfies himself again and leaves you unfullfilled, you could finish yourself off privately , if that is your desire to do that.

Its hard for me to stimulate my self first sometimes because he will just want it out of no where and wont let me turn myself on first he just wants to cum real quick and I'm left feeling used like thats all he wants from me. Its kinda hard to make myself go after feeling like that. I know he loves me but he has admitted to me that he is sexually addicted to me so I'm not sure what to do about that.

sorry my suggestion was not much help to you.
you still have my sympathy. If he just wants to cum real quick, it is never going to give you enough time to be properly aroused.
discussion, compromise are all required really , i suppose, but easier said than done I know.

ok well first of all my advice would be to tell him to straighten up and spend more time and attention to your needs. even if you have to stop him in the middle of it and scream it at him. if he still doesnt take the bait then wait until every single time he is just about to cum and shrug him off...let him go in his hand. men, geez louise ladies! what is the matter with them??? ALSO, you could try one of those vibrating penis rings that KY makes. i was EXTREMELY modest untill the relationship im in now and he introduced me to them and i swear to you they WORK. tell us how it goes!

Hey, my boyfriend did something a lot similar in the begining of our relationship. At first we would have what he would call sex, climax, and pass out... leaving me, unaware of what just happened and very aggravated that he got pleased with me having to do almost nothing, and him getting off within minutes. Seriously, what works for me is just to talk to him. I told him straight forward how I felt and since then the sex has been terrific. Another thing we did was to set a goal time. Silly I know, but it works. Before it would only last like 15 minutes... then we set an alarm for 30 minutes and see if he can go that far. After a while we tried to pop in a random movie, and see how far he would go, and before we knew it the movie was over. Now sex last us a while. Again, tell him how you feel. And if he continues on doing this, cause its wrong to leave you feeling used.... maybe you need someone else. I know, sex shouldnt be the center of a relationship, but in your case, if it doesn't improve you need to let him know whats coming to him. Best of luck!

my b/f was exactly the same and still would be if i had let it go on. Well for me my b/f begs for sex and i say NO make me want it and then we will.Its suprising what a man will do to get sex!.Works most of the time now