|Unfortunately having a relationship with someone that is bipolar is extremly difficult, nearly impossible. I love my ex-bipolar partner more than anything in this world, however; the uncontrolled mood things, inability to process things corectly, out of control anger, impulsive recklass behavior, lack of follow thru alll led to an instability I could no loger handle. Leaving was the hardest thing I ever had to do, while when she was balanced, she was a beautiful person. But understanding that she could not control her behavior and it would be a lifelong battle for normalcy, yes normalcy, paying the bills, eating, friends, talking, communication, became too much.
I feel horible for her and wish with all of me that people didnt have to deal with bipolar, on the other hand, if you are in a relationship with someone that is bipolar, you have to understand that it is going to be a long difficult life and that you will never truly be able to predict moods or any sort of consistency.