Hello everyone, I'm really scared, I have had a herpes out break for the first time since July and am having a hard time getting rid of it so my doctor is testing me for aids, I'm so scared, I've looked up all the signs and symptoms and I have a few, tingling in my hands and feet for about a month now, I wake up and my hands are asleep and I've never had this before, I'm so scared, I'm a mom of 3 children and I'm just so scared, I told my boyfriend who I am marrying soon and he said well, if you have it then I have it and we will deal with it together, could he have it too? I got the test done on Friday December 19, 2008 should have waited till after christmas because I am just a wreck waiting on the results, I am crying non stop and just a wreck, can anyone tell me what your signs were that you had aids that made you get tested? thanks so much for listening everyone and god bless!!