well how do i begin. My gf of 3 years have had our ups and dwns. She begged to have a baby and i kept my foot down cause i wanted to get married since i have another child and this being her 1st wanted to do it right. make a long story short i gave in. and now the baby is here. I read symptoms of post pardum and dont believe she has that, but i do believe she is over whelmed by becoming a new mother. her very good friend has went through the same thing. So my question to the forum is how should i take ehr saying she needs time apart from us , cause she has so much on her plate. The baby, work and us. She has said to me that she couldnt take a break from the baby or work. So our relationship was the only thing that she could have put to the side. So basically i believe what i am getting is not fair from her. She wants me to put my life on hold to wait for her. there was a time i said I couldnt do it anymore and wanted to move on. her exact words to me was "what about me, what am i suppose to do". oh how can i forget that she through me out a few months ago casue we had an agrument and not even a 24hrs later she is begging for me to move back in cause she noticed what she did was wrong and jumped the gun, so of course i come back and then 2 months later she sends a text asking me to leave andn i responded to her "whatever u are going through, i am not the enemy". and her relpy maybe i am. now we talked about what she said when we both were calm and not speaking on emotion and states that I am not the enemy. she just need time to get her life together. please please someone help me I dont know what the hell is going on