Strap-on dildo

um..i think this is very insulting...maybe you can ask him to incorporate a dildo in the foreplay or something but to straight up tell him you cant feel anything and you want him to wear a strap on is MEAN!

Yea but he is small and knows it. He ask me what could he do to make it better.

Should I tell him strap-on dildo?

I think asking him to wear a strap on could hurt his self esteem (even more) I don't think it's a good idea. If he knows he's smaller than average then chances are, he's self conscious about it.

I'd also ask myself if I'm really mature enough to engage in sex if I were you. I'm hoping you're using protection as well. If you want more penetration, go out and buy a vibrator for yourself. That way, no one gets insulted.

Hmmmm...
Sorry to say, but sex is a part of a relationship that is important. If you are not satisfied you will stray. He should want to satisfy you too.
Guys have really sensitive egos and penis size seems to play into their self esteem.
But, size does matter!!!!!
Open your lines of communication. If he is mature and has confidence in other areas he may be able to discuss his insecurity. If not, look for a new guy that is more mature and has a decent sized penis too. They exist.
If he will talk about it, you will find out how much he likes you by his level of desire to please you. If he really wants to please you he will particpate with you in a solution. He may become incredibly good at oral sex! You can get a big dildo and play with it on yourself with him; before you know it he'll be poking you with it! In fact, buy one of those strap ons where the dildo comes off.... Then after you guys play with that, the day will come to pull out the harness and I bet he'll do it.
Hmmmm... You never know, it night be awesome for both of you to use the strap on and then his small penis can be a butt plug.
If none of this works, bail. You need to be satisfied too and there's lots of guys out there who have plenty to give.

Hmmmm...
Sorry to say, but sex is a part of a relationship that is important. If you are not satisfied you will stray. He should want to satisfy you too.
Guys have really sensitive egos and penis size seems to play into their self esteem.
But, size does matter!!!!!
Open your lines of communication. If he is mature and has confidence in other areas he may be able to discuss his insecurity. If not, look for a new guy that is more mature and has a decent sized penis too. They exist.
If he will talk about it, you will find out how much he likes you by his level of desire to please you. If he really wants to please you he will particpate with you in a solution. He may become incredibly good at oral sex! You can get a big dildo and play with it on yourself with him; before you know it he'll be poking you with it! In fact, buy one of those strap ons where the dildo comes off.... Then after you guys play with that, the day will come to pull out the harness and I bet he'll do it.
Hmmmm... You never know, it night be awesome for both of you to use the strap on and then his small penis can be a butt plug.
If none of this works, bail. You need to be satisfied too and there's lots of guys out there who have plenty to give.

since hes small u should tell him to eat u out and finger u hes going to have to make it up somehow also try using toys but dont use a strap on because he probably get turned off

Do you ever think the problem might be yours?

We have a saying (its like throwing a kit bag down the back ally)

I just never touches the sides, Its like a wizards sleeve long and very baggy!

If you are just using this guy let him down gently, If you love this Guy go and discus it with a doctor You may have the problem that can be corrected by a vaginal plasty, or any repair they find.

Dont do this to him you will scar him for life

hahahahahahahahhah lol small dick dnt mind me im only 14

ive been married for 35 years and we use strap ons and toys i love her and ill do anything to make her happy
being sexually frustrated is not good for man nor woman

I think that's rather cruel for you to say that about your partner. I mean I can think of so many ways of getting turned and just thinking about someone sexy can give me an orgasm, so i think you're being mean really. I think it can do a man's ego in if you're honest and say he's small. Try and look into ways of making him grow, I mean my ex boyfriend grew from 6 inch to 8 inch since we had sex on a regular basis, so many make a habit of it and see if he grows too. I'm no expert, but there could be hidden pscycological reasons why he doesn't get big/hard enough - like have you discussed with him your underwear, the way you like sex and had intimate talks with you as this can be a way to turn him on and get him hard!

There are some bulls**t replies here. Guys are only humiliated because of women who think they deserve the best. They call a man with a small d*ck a loser, so actually accepting him and asking him to use a strap on is assuring him he is not being rejected. I have a 4" d*ck although it is fat, I want my wife to let me use a strap on so I can do the job right.

Wow what a shallow b*tch you are. The fact that your obsessing over a man's external body organ he has no control over...shows where your head really is.
I find it amusing women think we can magically get porn star sized dicks. Your born with what you got. Just like many women have small breasts, on the contrary, same with guys and penis size. Plus aren't you supposed to be doing kegel exercises or whatever to stay tight?
If you can't get over this flaw and look to what a relationship is REALLY about, I'd re-think your priorities in life.

I think that it isn't shallow at all. Sex plays a HUGE role in relationship and keeps both parties happy. I don't think that it would be a problem posing the idea of a strap on to him. It sounds like you two have already talked a bit on the topic of the size of his penis and what not, so I don't think it would be terrible.

Anyway, it's not like you are asking to bring another person into the relationship or anything like that. And who knows, maybe you'll get to use it on him too! ^.^

You need to be careful how you put this to him as he could feel a little 'sensative' when talking about his penis if his penis is just below average size... Try fore play and buying sex toys for the both of you, such as a dildo, out-fits and rings, there fore during foreplay you may orgasm... plus the more effort, the more satisfing it is. Also try new sex postions such as missonary postion with you on the bottom, wrap your legs around his bum, don't squeeze just relax Have fun!!! (Sorry about spelling, shame it's not my strong point lol)

I dont think so. my girlfriend just got a sexy sea urchin that works great for guys and girls. we had a male friend join us and he enjoyed strapping it on

I'm a guy that would not be ashamed to use a strap on
I would love to find someone that would like using one
since i lost the ability to get an erection.
A strap on would be a turn on for me. Eating her out and using a strap on seems the way to go all night, and to satisfy her.
Jim

penetration is not just about man & women, or skin to skin….
There is also something els going on that is extremely intimate.,
When penetrated sexually by another person (penis, dildo, finger, etc….), you are allowing someone to enter you in a very intimate, trusting, way (even if it is with a dildo)… the (penetrator) other person is controlling how fast, hard, deep, etc…
It allows you to be vulnerable and trusting with that person…. Knowing that person can hurt you (by being too rough).. but they dont… the penetrator has power over you in the moment,,,
personally speaking… it is that intimacy that makes penetration pleasurable… (its not physically pleasurable without that connection)…
In that situation where you are inviting to be penetrated… embracing your own vulnerability, trusting… etc… On the other side of it, the penetrator has the power, has been invited to enter, has to be gentle and follow the reactions and body language… feeling a connectedness from doing "it" to the other… rather than with the other (for a lack of words)…

I am much older than my young wife (strong sexual needs) and have ED. Viagra helps but not 100% Since baby born, I find very hard to penetrate her and other positions no longer successful I bought her a dildo which she will enjoy for about an hour after our attempts. I never knew about a strap on but will try! I am unsure how much of problem is mine and hers)if any. I jokingly suggested she try other guy to confirm! Thoughts?

Do you ever think the problem might be yours?

We have a saying (its like throwing a kit bag down the back ally)

I just never touches the sides, Its like a wizards sleeve long and very baggy!

If you are just using this guy let him down gently, If you love this Guy go and discus it with a doctor You may have the problem that can be corrected by a vaginal plasty, or any repair they find.

Dont do this to him you will scar him for life

As for you people inviting a third party into your relationship, it will end like most relationships once she has tried another man and enjoyed something you cant give her she will be off, not today and may be not tomorrow , but off she will go, because I am sure you are not thinking of bringing someone of the same age as you
into your partners life and defiantly not suffering with your own problem. keep the third party out after all she's very special to you so why turn her into a slapper for your own benefit .