Straight but masterbate to the thought of lesbian! (Page 3)

i am a18 year old i hav equal feelings for both gals and boys but the very thought thinking me as lesbo scares me as iam from a sacred hindu family so anyone plzzzzzzz help me by sending sugestions plzzzzzzzzzzz .......help me not to become a lebo plzzzzzzz

Hello Neehu, how are you?
If you have equal feelings for boys and girls, you can't be a lesbian, you'd be a bi-sexual, however, if you were to practice sex with a female, you might enjoy it more than you would with a boy. It all depends on your pleasure's preferences. Do you have a boyfriend?
If you do, hang out with him alone, no other girls.
The only one who can really help you, is YOU. You must set your mind to know that becoming a lesbian is out of the question, for you and your family's sake.
Don't look at other girls if you can. If tempted to do so, get your mind busy in something else. Read a book (no love stories), watch comedy shows etc...
Don't hang out with girls.
Are you in India? Do you have an older sister?
I'm hoping to make a trip to India in the near future.
Namaste.
TC. T.

thanx ....yup i hav a younger sister i am an indian............no bfs .....but am trying for one.....i will try to follow ur suggestions and some how get out of it......thanxxxxx:)

Here is a food for thought. Porn now a days is so aggressive and emotionless. With lesbian porn, the sex is sensual. There's that sensuality that the female body is being appreciated by every kiss, touch, and stroke when two women are having sex. There's that sense of sexual truth that when a woman makes love to another woman, that sense of sexual familiarity of knowing each other bodies is quite intriguing.

Yeah, me too. I love my husband and enjoy sex with him. But when we are apart it is women's bodies that I look at and fantasize to while masturbating. I am not at all interested in looking at naked men. I don't know how most of my friends feel about looking at women, but I know none of them like looking at naked men- I mean like their faces look grossed out when we talk about it.

Yeah, me too. I love my husband and enjoy sex with him. But when we are apart it is women's bodies that I look at and fantasize to while masturbating. I am not at all interested in looking at naked men. I don't know how most of my friends feel about looking at women, but I know none of them like looking at naked men- I mean like their faces look grossed out when we talk about it.

WOW....I can relate Sarah123456. I am sure you do enjoy sex with your husband. I am a straight woman and I truly enjoy lesbian porn and I enjoy looking and fantasizing about another woman. I've recently come to this conclusion although I love men but the male body just doesn't appeal to me in the way another woman does.

Seems most women - and men- agree!

I am straight as it gets I've always liked men and men only, I was always sure I was 110% into men ONLY until one night at a party me and one of my girl friends drank a lot and ended up making out and she touched me everywhere... lol I really think we would have gone all the way if someone hadnt walked in on us, the weird thing is that before that night I had NEVER thought about been bisexual or having and type of sexual interest towards a girl, but since that night I've been very curious and confused I think I really would like to experiment with a girl and I also do get more turned on by girl on girl porn, any suggestions or advices? does this mean I turned bi? or what does this mean!

I don't know what it means, but all the straight women like me posting on here have not had sex with another woman, but when we fantasize or look at pictures we prefer thinking about and looking at females. And most of us are even turned-off by looking at males in porn. Just something about the female body that is far, far more sexually arousing to look at than the male.

I understand that but you guys would never actually try it? like have you thought about it before?

Lesbian porn is better than strait porn. Guys in strait porn are cheesy, for the most part.

I started watching lez porn about 4 years ago. I had never "worried" much about being gay or bi, I just liked watching it. Then, after I broke up with a long term bf, I decided to actually be with a woman. I kissed a girl for the first time, (a very attractive and feminine girl) and I felt the familiar flush/tingle that I have felt every time I kiss a guy I'm attracted to. I immediately became turned on and at that point I knew it went deeper than just me liking to watch porn. When we actually had sex, I thoroughly enjoyed her body, breasts, going down on her, etc. Going down on a woman is not "gross". It just depends on the person. There is something just hyper sexual about performing oral sex on another woman. For that matter, there is also something amazing about performing it on a man. I just really love intimacy and closeness, having my mouth on a beautiful woman or man's genitals is.... wonderful

I am strait though for the most part! I'm not sure if I could really date a woman. Never say never though.

I can totally relate because eventhough I've never had sex with a girl I am still sexually attracted to them just as much as I am to men, and I dont think that makes us bi unless why actually have feelings for the person, like you said never say never, but I really dont think I would ever have a relationship with a girl but still would like to experiment LOL!

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A straight woman is not attracted to, is not turned on by, is not curious about any aspect regarding to sex or relationship with another woman, by definition. The End.

The End? Really? You are in for a very rude shock.

In looking to find medicines that will help women with orgasm and arousal problems, sexual arousal have been studied in thousands and thousands of women. A probe inside the vagina is used to detect vasocongestion and wetness in a woman's vagina (the primary signs of arousal) as various videos are played to her.

The results does unfortunately not agree with your dictionary definition. All healthy women get aroused by lesbian sex scenes. And shockingly, as much as by heterosexual sex scenes. These studies have been verified over and over, and peer reviewed, so it is no use to attack the science and techniques behind them. Most of these women does not self report that thay get aroused, yet they are aroused.

What defines a woman as heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual or any combination is not what she is turned on by or aroused by, but what she does with those feelings, and what actual sexual contact she prefers. You cannot think yourself lesbian or straight. And every woman knows instinctively when she looks for a sexual partner, what she is looking for, a man, a woman, several men, several woman or a group. It is not because she gets turned on by watching one type of porn or another. It is because it is a deep rooted preference that she was born with.

In isolation, women will have sex with women, and men with men without changing sexual preference. This is because sex is a basic need and if no other form of sex is an option, any sex will do. In recent studies, a lot more straight women are reporting sexual contact with other women. Maybe it is just an experimental phase, or they got high or drunk, but research are showing that it is happening a lot more than you would think. And these women never have another same sex incident again, and do not classify themselves as lesbian or bisexual.

Do not get confused by all this. You know what your preferences are. Getting aroused or thinking about another woman, or lesbian sex does not make you anything other than what you are. Your sexual preferences is programmed into your DNA, not your thoughts.

This is such a good explanation of things.

HI I think that when watching or seeing porn our minds want us to be with one man not many so the thought of seeing another man's penis doesn't feel right if it's not your lovers. Seeing women is a different story we are all beautiful and we know that we aren't actually making love to them; like fantasies we have with famous people it would never happen and your not really in love with them but the thought is warming and beautiful. I would personally go down with a women and have sex with her just to try it it doesn't make me bisexual or lesbian.

SAME

Even this same things happen with me. i watch Straight and Lesbian Porn. i enjoy watching when the male is licking the girl everywhere. and i enjoy when lesbians are pressing and squeezing each other and licking off...... i like this much more than the the "girl performing on a guy."[Sorry to use such slang vocabulary]

it gives me a feeling that i am being caressed and squeezed and licked off. this turns me on. and makes me rub my clit and i masterbate. i think there is nothing wrong to get turned on by a lesbian porn.

hey can anyone suggest me some good porn site>>>??? i am bored with the one which i currently use..
please any of u suggest me some ...

I like girl on girl because you don't see enough cunnilingus in straight porn. I think its just the girl getting off and the orgasm sounds and imagining someone doing it to me that does it. I thought I was gay because I like lez porn and tried it with a girl and it was lame. I'm straight but straight porn is made for men.

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I am a straight woman who is very aroused by my friend who has big, beautiful tits and nipples. She likes to get freaky sometimes and we have engaged in breast play many times. She also sucks on my nipples which are very, very sensitive. I see nothing wrong with it, we both enjoy it but have no interest in going below the waist. Even just thinking about her big, beautiful tits gets me so aroused I have to relieve myself. I'm getting aroused right now. Have to go.

honestly, id rather watch lesbian porn any day of the week over straight porn. idk if its just me but i think they make straight porn a bit too dirty, but thats just my opinion.ive seen pornos where guys are sticking their dicks so far in a girl mouth that shes gagging nd you can tell shes not enjoying it as much as shes faking she is lol but at the end of the day porn is porn. its there to get you aroused and help with your imagination.and get you off. theres no wrong way of watching porn. its all about what turns YOU on.

I am so ecstatic that I found this post. For as long as I can remember, I have only ever been able to masturbate to women. I am not a lesbian, and can only see myself being with men, yet again and again I find myself fantasizing-while touching myself to women. I used to get terribly freaked out by this, but now I look at it as something unique and incredible about sexuality. There is no black and white, no concrete label... yes I am straight, but I fantasize about women... yet I am not gay.

Instead of being grossed out by this, we need to feel proud, proud that unlike many men, we are capable of such dexterity within our sexual imaginations. Gotta love being a woman!!

I think it was Sigmund Freud who said that apart from the chromosonally different effeminate male and the masculine female there is no such thing as gay or straight and everyone else is to some degree bisexual!

While I believe this to be mostly true and explains many things it is not the complete answer.

It would be impossible to carry out a definitive study because the only valid results could come from a society that hasn't pre-conditioned sexual attraction in any way. As our society is full of taboos and social inhibitions any results from a study carried out at this time and place are likely to be seriously flawed...

It would also be necessary to separate the purely sexual from the concept of love.
This was explored to some degree in "Westway" a BBC World Service soap opera designed to teach the rest of the world how UK English is used. A woman from the medical practice went to India to do some missionary work and returned with an Autralian girlfriend but maintained she was still heterosexual.
It was the person she fell in love with, she claimed, and sex with that person was natural and normal and did not interfere in any way with her previously heterosexual status. The script writer made the rest of the characters accept this premise and believe it to be true...

Then there is the situation where both men and women who need a sexual outlet will often find it in a same-sex relationship as a purely temporary measure returning to the opposite sex when the oportunity arises...
This is not considered abnormal either!

It is also considered normal for same-sex experiments to take place between young people through puberty and sometimes between the curious young and older people. Although this is frowned upon by society in the here-and-now at other times and places it has been considered normal and even beneficial...

Personally I can't understand why every woman isn't lusting after every other woman - men have so many sharp corners and rough bits while women are smoother, softer, rounder and more tactile in every way!