I am the wrong person to ask to stop masturbation, as I believe it is a healthy part of every day life.
NO, there is no way to stop wet dreams. They are natural.
YOU DO NOT LOSE "men power" THROUGH MASTURBATION. The
opposite is actually true!! Masturbation keeps your male body healthy and fit. It keeps your reproductive system healthy and POTENT. It can teach you control of orgasm so that during sex you can go for a long time to please your partner!
Stopping masturbation will not make "men power" come back. You have not lost any power! If you stop masturbating, you can cause major problems with your prostate.
If you want fewer wet dreams, then you MUST masturbate during the day every now and then. You get wet dreams because YOUR BODY knows it needs to masturbate, and since YOU won't give it orgasm, it does so when you are asleep! Your body is smarter than you are! It knows masturbation is GOOD for it.
MASTURBATION IS NOT BAD. IT IS HEALTHY.