hi there, so my boyfriend got arrested 3 weeks ago for having 60 grams of pot. I never really cared that he did it but after he got caught i'm now thinking, wow maybe this is a problem. He was smoking it everyday with his frineds for a while. Its like something they all do together. He's convinced hes going to get out of it and not be charged. He told me after he was caught that he was quitting but now he's doing it again and i don't like it. He says he wont be stupid and not have it on him anymore but i want him to quit entirely. I'm realizing now how much it affected his life, it makes him lazy, unmotivated and moody...it just took up alot of his life. How can I convince him to stop doing it, I told him i dont like it but he said if he wants to do it he's going to...Ive been in a relationship with him for 3 years and want to marry him some day, but i do not want to date a pothead anymore...What can i do?