My friends are having quite the discrepancy on a certain topic that I also don't know what to make of. A couple of them were hanging out at one of their houses & drinking & one of them blacked out, & in her coming & going consciousness throughout the evening, she remembers them going to a party & being taken into a bedroom. she was a virgin & some guy took advantage of her, but she knows for a fact that his penis didn't go all the way in her & it was so small she could barely feel it. Having sex with someone while they're intoxicated is a form of rape & a lot of people say you're still a virgin if you're first time was because you got raped. She may have made the decision to drink, but she didn't know they'd be leaving the safety of a guy-free house later on. Is she still a virgin, or not?