So me and my husband were talking just random stuff and somehow we get on the subject of one of his exs who he just now is telling me had slept with over 17 people BEFORE him.

I already knew about his other ex who cheated on him a couple times, and then when we got together with her who knows where she had been...

anyways.

We've been together a year now, and my health sucks..it used to be okay but since i started having sex(actually about 5 months after) (he's my first and only) my health hasnt been so good.

could it be possible to have something but have no symptoms? or am i just overeacting?

also where can i get tested for things? I dont have money right now, and we wont for a couple months cause we have to catch up on bills..

and how do i get him tested? He says he wont do it cause he wont let them stick him with a needle or whatnot..it ticks me off.