Don't put all the blame on the guy-- it's your job to look after yourself! If you're not sure if a guy is clean then condoms are a MUST HAVE for sex. Put your foot down, if he doesn't wear a condom, then you don't have sex. Its simple as that and just saying, "well he didn't want to," isn't an excuse for either of you. If you don't want to get pregnant and you don't want to get an STD, then look after yourself and make sure you are taking proper precautions.

When I was tested, it was a swab that was taken during be pelvic exam, but sometimes they do blood tests.

Ask your boyfriend to get tested as well-- it shouldn't be a big deal. Both my ex and I were tested before we started having sex.

Yeah...make sure he wears a condom. Don't let him guilt you into saying it doesn't feel or good that he never uses it with women he loves. While it's flattering that he said that, don't buy it. Condom...or nothing. Seriously...if a guy who has had sex with 200 women came near me, he would need to put a condom on before we even took our clothes off!!!!

Call the clinic, said you would like to have a comprehensive test on all STD's done. They will give you a pelvic exam, and they SHOULD give you a blood test (because I'm telling you to get tested for EVERYTHING).