About a year and a half ago I broke up with my long term boyfriend and was completely stupid and unaware that other people could have stds. So I met a guy and went home with him, and stupidly had a good amount to drink. We ended up in his bed, but we didn't have sex [i've never had anal/vaginal sex], just lots of fricton with genital contact. In the morning I wasn't exactly sure what happened, but he for some reason told me 'don't worry I dont have stds.' And I, haven't even IMAGAINED that would be an issue, got really scared he would bring it up.

Immediately when I left, my vaginal area began BURNING, for a few days. Its been a year and a half since then, and I am constantly itchy down there[feels like crawling], and there are tiny white dots on my outer lips. I am freaking out because I am afraid it is an std [herpies?], but I am wishfully hoping maybe its a curable infection? I have had some genital contact with about 4 other people since then and none of them have any symptoms like I do. I wear tights and tighter fitting clothing daily, so maybe that would influence something? Is there anything that could get ruled out or something I most definetly have?